Broken trust....

 Yesterday we had a visitor.  Someone reported us to DCSF.  The report said J berates me, that J lost his temper and G was in the trunk.  It said she wasn't sure if J shoved her in there and drove that way or she went in herself.  I can say without a doubt that my daughter unbuckled her seatbelt in the driveway and jumped over the seat to the back.  We have an SUV.  He'd never drive with her like that.  This was from an RBT that comes into our home to help us with G.  To help her figure out how to manage her big feelings in a productive way.  To help her learn how to talk to people and learn how to be a friend.  How can I trust them again.  I'm not sure who filed the report but I have a guess.  When J came home from a trip, G wanted to go with him to pick up Taco Bell.  She wasn't behaving the best so the RBT said she shouldn't go and we all agreed.  G became violent with her and has been mad at her ever since.  That's G.  She holds a grudge.  She will hit, kick and do whatever it takes to make the person go away.  I remember her mentioning G's aggression and the report says she believes it's learned from someone in the house.  Interesting though.  I had to pick her up from daycare so the investigator could talk to her.  When we got home, G was having none of it  She jumped over the seat and hid in the trunk (SUV).  So she saw first hand.  She talked to me for a while and asked if she could talk to the pediatrician and a character reference.  I gave her permission and a phone number to my SIL.  I also gave her Jim's number.  She said it takes 30 days for the case to close but it should be done.  She said she'll let me know.  I called the director and she was unaware of all of this.  She also said the RBT should have come to her before doing this.  If she finds out who it was, she won't be coming back into our home.  Again, how can I trust them again.