Already July....

This year is going by quickly.  G hasn't been doing as well as I'd like her to do in school.  I'm hoping to get some new things set up so she can practice reading and writing a bit more.  Hoping her teacher is also much better than what she had last year.  We also switched daycares.  It became apparent that no matter the circumstances, my daughter would be written up.  They would automatically take another child at it's word without talking to my daughter.  So we are now in another daycare and they let RBT's into the facility.  However, we just had an incident and my daughter along with another girl, bullied a child with special needs.  They were both involved but only my daughter was moved to another room.  Again, she's being singled out as the troublemaker.  It makes my heart sad.  But the BCBA is having a meeting with the staff and was going to ask some questions about that.  In addition, I've been explaining over and over how some conversations are inappropriate and that's what got her in trouble.  She basically asked the little girl if she knows what gay means and the other girl asked her if she knows what special needs means.  I've reached out to her therapist for some assistance.  Social stories that can help her understand what she did was wrong.  It's hard to punish someone that doesn't understand what she did.  I think that's what's most frustrating of all.  Her lack of understanding.