G seems so unhappy these days. I think she is becoming more aware of the meds and says she doesn't like them and doesn't like how she feels. She keeps blaming me for making her feel that way. I'm at a loss. She's always saying why does she have to go to school when her friend doesn't. ( I really don't know what her friends family does and if they do or don't let their daughter stay home more than G. She is in Kindergarten and G is in 1st Grade). She wants to have a little sister and blames that on me too. I wanted her to have a sibling but J didn't want to move forward. He wanted so much for my age to be an issue and was so upset the Dr gave me the go ahead to try again. Reality is, he didn't want another child and I'm being blamed by her for not having another. I'm trying not to take it personally but it's hard when your child blames everything on you at such a young age. She's not grateful for anything she has and I don't know how to get it through to her about that. With our trip to school today, I came home feeling lost and sad. I don't know how to feel happy anymore.
Wife of a pilot and part time husband, and our journey to grow our family...and now an entrepreneur.
Thursday, April 11, 2024
Friday, May 26, 2023
My first canning project...
Wednesday, December 30, 2020
4 Years Old already.....
Time has really flown by. Just yesterday I was arguing with J about driving to the hospital to deliver this precious gift from God. And now, she's a beautiful, strong willed, loving but devious little lady. Each day is a gift with her. All I can do now is pray that I raise her right. Teach her to be thoughtful and caring. Teach her to look out for others when they need it. To share with others. She is a bit hyperactive and sensitive to foods that may cause hyperactivity and aggression. We've noticed it a lot when she eats foods with dyes. Trying to eliminate that. This week has been hard. But I love spending time with her. Wish I was a bit younger and had more energy. Need to up the exercise so I can keep up with her more. But I don't let it stop me from being with her. No one knows better than I how much she's wanted and loved. I prayed for her for years. Had lost so much. I remember I was scared that when I did get pregnant, I wouldn't know what to do. I was so wrong. I will always remember the struggle but it was all worth it in the end.
It's always ok in the end. If it's not ok, then it's not the end.
I guess I'm saying that it's ok now. Our journey to three is now complete. I wish I could have another but it's not in the cards for us.
That's the good part of this post. Here's the other half. 2020 has been the hardest year of my life. We're surviving. I'm not sure how sometimes but we are. I have learned to adapt. I will say, I'm grateful, G went back to school in June. I wasn't doing very well at that point. Working with a 3 year old who was crying and wanting someone to play with her was hard to deal with. Unfortunately, the tablet became her friend more than I would have liked. G was showing signs of depression and it made me sad. I know people say kids are resilient but I don't want the world to shut down and see her spiral down like that. Also, J has been home since May but hasn't been very helpful when it comes to cooking, cleaning or caring for G. Maybe it's a bit of depression. But it's been hard. I've found ways to come up with meals to cook easily. Crock pot meals are the easiest and I go for easy. At this point, I'll be working from home till at least the summer. I'm hoping it's for good. Hoping we can finish cleaning up the house, sell and move south for good. I truly hate living here and feel like it will be restrictive like for good. Politicians got a taste of power and now they just abuse it. J was in 7-11 and his mask was below his nose. The management didn't say anything but some crazy woman started yelling at him and chasing him down. Started taking pictures of him and his car while he was driving. What the heck was that. If the store didn't care, why was she getting so close and invading his space. What right did she have to do that. I'm sure she called the police but really, what are they going to do. 7-11 wasn't her store and J has rights.
Here's to a happy new year 2021.....BYE BYE 2020. YOU SUCKED!
Friday, October 23, 2020
The Year of 2020
2020 started off great. Then it all got weird. I packed up my office at work on March 20th thinking I'd be home for a few weeks. Then a week later my daughter was home as well. Work became a blur, while I worked from the kitchen table and tried to manage my 3 year old that didn't understand why she was not going back to school to see her beloved teacher and friends. My potty trained little girl suddenly started having accidents. Stopped taking naps, took walks with me only for her to say, "Mommy, I just want to go home" She only had us and no one to play with. I was working all day as best I could while trying to watch her and keep her entertained. She got a climber with a slide, a new playhouse, bike, skates. Anything we could do to keep her busy since the parks were closed and no kids were around to play with. When daycare started up again, Giuli was excited to go back. Although it wasn't allowed the kids hugged in delight. Seems crazy to tell kids one minute to be affectionate and the next, not to go near each other. Finally the parks re-opened and Giuli was back at playing with kids she'd meet in the park. One man brought his daughter to the park and then tells me "Social distance please" since my 3 year old wanted to play with his daughter. My feeling is that if you are that worried, don't go to the park where there are little children. I'm not going to restrain my daughter and keep her away from other kids. Restrain yourself and stay home. Now we are coming to the end of the year, and I'm still WFH. Giuli is still in daycare, and J is still home driving me nuts. I think he'll be home till the end of the year.
Some pics of my grown up little one.
Ready for school |
Matching nightie's |
Waiting for the Dr. |
Chillin till we leave for school! |
I'm just soooo cool! |
I just love summer! |
Monday, February 29, 2016
Hormones...
Thursday, December 31, 2015
New beginnings...
So Happy New Year everyone. I pray all your hopes and dreams come true. I wish you all good health and happiness in the new year ahead.