Changes in my life....

It's been a few weeks since I've last posted.  At the end of Aug I had a appointment for a check-up.  I told my Dr. I have been feeling rather fatigued lately and generally not well.  She did some blood tests and discovered that I'm now a pre-diabetic.  I don't need meds which I'm grateful for but I have to change my diet and add 5 days of exercise into my schedule.  I've been trying really hard to watch what I eat.  I've started using sparkpeople.com again religiously.  They have a diabetic section so it's been really helpful and tomorrow, I have an appointment with a diabetic educator at the hospital.  I'm hoping they can tell me what I'm doing right or wrong. I have to use a glucose meter twice a day now.  I just never realized how much the food I choose to eat affects me.  Today was a good day for me.  My glucose after dinner was lower than when I woke up this morning.  Seems any bit of regular pasta or rice spikes my sugar level very high.  I really want to get this under control.  Its so important to me that no doctor says I'm not healthy enough to carry a baby.  I want to make sure I can move forward early next year for my next IVF.  I've waited so long for this and I can't allow anything to get in my way.

Also seem to be having some issues at work which frustrates me.  We have 2 account people I work with for a majority of the time on my team and I've tried to help them out since they sometimes seem so overwhelmed.  I've taken on some of there responsibilities in addition to my own.  As a result, the account director implied that I'm not doing a good enough job.  I've thought about it all weekend long and I'll talk to my supervisor  tomorrow about it.  I may have to give back those tasks they have come to rely on me for.  I guess it really irks me that I took on extra to help them, then get criticized by the same people I'm trying to help.  No problem though.  I'll concentrate on doing my job better and that mean they'll have to take those tasks back since it's affecting the quality of my job.  I'm worried about what they'll say to me tomorrow when I tell them but if someone is telling me that I'm not doing a great job at "my job" then I need to focus on "my job".  One of the things I really hate about my company and department is that I really don't get any promotions or incentive to strive for  Account gets promotions, creative gets promotions.  I just stay doing the same job as always.  No promotions in my department.  No rewards at all.  Right now, the only reason I'm still there is because it pays the bills and allows me to save for having my future children which is why I need to fix this situation as soon as possible.  I wish I could say I stay because it's a rewarding job and I enjoy it so much but I don't.  I haven't enjoyed it for a long time.  Someday, I hope to get into something I really enjoy doing.  Till then I'll just have to trek on with this place.

9/11

So hard to believe it's been 10 years.  I remember that day well.  I grew up in NY.  My family and friends still live in NY.  I was at work in Chicago when I realized what had happened.  J was at home.  Still sleeping and safe.  I'm not sure if I was moved more because I grew up in NY.  Or maybe it was because my innocence was lost that day.  I never believed we were ever in danger of a terrorist attack that could kill over 3000 lives in one day.  I still have a hard time believing it but today it all comes back to me.  It's a reality.  Like it just happened yesterday.  J is flying today but no where near NY. So much has changed since that day.  I haven't returned to see what NYC looks like without the Twin Towers.  It will never be the same.  I grew up with those buildings as the backdrop of photos from the Staten Island Ferry and from Brooklyn Heights.  From the Statue of Liberty.  I wonder what it looks like now.  I see it on TV but that's just not the same.  Maybe it's time to visit my family.  Anyway, it feels like such a sad day today. 

Wondering....

Sometimes I feel like I go through life wishing it was a day later.  Every Monday is dreaded and can't wait for it to end.  Then Tuesday goes by and I'm thankful that Wednesday will be here and it's the middle of the week.  Wednesday is good because I know I'm in the middle and at the end of the day I will be looking forward to Thursday because now I only have 2 days left till the end.  And of course, Friday comes and I ever so grateful because now I have Sat and Sun off to relax.  I feel like I wish my life away and now that I'm in my 40's I have nothing to show for it.  I've spent so much time wishing for the next day to come.  Now I'm wishing for the time to go by so we can start our next IVF treatment.  I'm excited about it but at the same time it still feels like a lifetime away.  I'm worried about so much.  Right now, it's not looking good my previous IVF getting paid for by the insurance.  The last few weeks I've talked to the RE's office and I've been getting the run around.  They knew my company was being sold and they told me the procedure would be paid for since I started treatment prior to the sale.  Now I talk to the office and I get the craziest questions.  Like implying that I had this same coverage for the entire year except my first 2 procedures were fully covered.  Then, I was asked if I changed jobs.  Really?  We talked about all this prior to anything happening and now it's all a problem. They assured me that the costs will be covered.  J said he would go to the RE's office and talk to them in person. He said we'll file an appeal and he'll work out a payment plan with the hospital.  I'm just so upset.  It's over $8.000 in medical bills that would have only cost us $250 and I think my RE's office screwed up when they said it would all be covered.  Now we are getting the run around.  I had hoped to get a loan to help pay for the next IVF but looks like I'll have to wait a bit longer and pay for it ourselves.  I wanted to start at the beginning of the year but I might have to wait till around April or May.  I've waited this long, I guess a few months more is ok. 

Anyway, J & I had an interested holiday weekend.  J has been going crazy buying cars and car parts for his projects.  Well, he took my car out to Lansing, MI to look at and buy a car.  He rented a Uhaul truck and dolly to tow the car back and left my car in Lansing.  We rented a one way car to Lansing to pick up my car.  We were almost there when I asked the loaded question.  You have the keys to the Nissan, right?  Well, the answer was no.  Now, we were so flustered we missed the exit to the airport  The rental is almost of out gas and we don't know where we are.  I start looking up Nissan dealerships on my iPhone to see if any are open.  It's 1:45 and they are closing at 2PM.  Luckily, we found a gas station.  We also called Budget rental to see what it would cost to extend the rental till the next day.  Well, that was out of the question at an extra $300.  Then we started calling locksmiths.  We found one that was open and he met us at the airport.  Took him about 30 minutes and only $85 and a sigh of relief.  Weekend came close to being a disaster but luckily it was just a small setback and ended great.  And we still have Monday to enjoy.